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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think for most there was some level of being aware of their desire for men and yet calling themselves lesbians for a variety of reasons (both push and pull factors) but it’s important to note that this is also a group characterized by black and white (lol BINARY) thinking. Feel any degree of attraction to women = lesbian. Have an emotionally fraught relationship with the male sex? Again, lesbian. In their minds.