I'm not gonna pretend like my dating life was ever prosperous or lively because as a feminine presenting gay man, dating in the gay scene has been a rough ride and I can say that I went through all my 20s never have been in a relationship. But lately I've been feeling like me being "pro-reality", "gender critical", etc whatever you'd like to call it has only made things even more complicated.
I was recently talking with a guy on a dating app who seemed to be interested in me and I was somewhat interested in him but within a day he starts talking about transgenderism with how "you can be a gay man and have a vagina" and "you can be a lesbian with a penis" and I just had to speak out in protest. Long story short, he called me "transphobic" and blocked me. The last thing he said was that he couldn't believe someone like me (Gender nonconforming) can be "transphobic". Of course in the back of my head I'm thinking "Why would you be surprised someone like me thinks trans is a lie" but whatever.
I've talked a bit about this before with how I as a feminine GNC man tend to attract bisexual men as opposed to gay men and the overwhelming majority seem to buy into trans ideology and it seems llke my not beieving in the ideology makes me not date/relationship worthy because I refuse to swallow trans dogma as well as reject whenever guys try to "other" me as not a man because of how I choose to present myself.
I'm just starting to feel like I'm not meant to have a special someone in my life especially since I'm "tRaNsPhObIC". I mean I think that even the awesome Magdalen Berns was single in her life and she was outspoken against Transgenderism as well. This is not disrespect ot her of course, I LOVE Magdalen, she was a kick ass woman who spoke for truth and even though I'm gay, I thought she was a good looking woman and I'm sure there were lesbians and bi girls who found her attractive. I'm just making an observation is all.
Anyway just needed to clear my head tbh. So many thoughts lol.