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[–]MyLongestJourney 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Very well said. The fear is not irrational,the concerns are real,if you want a long term relationship. I would also add the following :

1.the issue of STDs,as women who have sex with men have a way higher chance to get one than women who have sex exclusively with other women.

2.The heterosexual couples who use the woman as a bait to lure women in a threesome. Went to a couple of dates with bisexual women,only to end up in this previously undisclosed prospect.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I first commented on this thread, I didn't realize that OP was trying to stir up trouble, but I see that now and I don't want to fan the flames, so I'm going to stop responding to the thread now. That said, I just replied to Elvira elaborating on my thoughts, if you're curious. I totally get why many lesbian women are hesitant to date bisexual-identified women for practical reasons like the ones you just described.