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[–]PatsyStoneMaverique[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

In that particularly comment string she addressed my In a derisive way repeatedly, which is dehumanizing. If I snarled "my dear lesbian" at you or sassed you and then asked "satisfied, lesbian?" you would feel belittled and dehumanized, yes?

The thing that has gotten me upset enough to drag other lesbians into this is that she asked for details about an assault and then was up her own ass feeling like a victim and mocked me over it. Evil.

Why does that need explaining? I want an apology from her, or at least for her to delete that comment. She's isn't a feminist or a "lover of women." I want to be treated with respect and compassion. I am also female.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You are not getting any kind of apology,because you made an inflammatory post with the intent to sow discord in this community. Previously you described this sub as dead and expressed the wish it was shut down.If I were a mod you would get banned and topics which pit the members of the community against each other (gays vs lesbians,lesbians vs bisexuals and lesbian against lesbians) would be forbidden by the rules.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You don't owe anyone an apology. You are being totally reasonable.