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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 21 insightful - 12 fun21 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

No one is saying you have to have sex with us. But if you don't, you are a genocidal murderer.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Real talk: who's out here murdering trans women? Seriously. You'd think that if there was a huge rash of trans women getting murdered, that would be all over mainstream media (at least in the US).

Or wait, are they talking about killing themselves again?

[–]JulienMayfair 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Real talk: who's out here murdering trans women?

Real answer: The men they encounter when they decide to engage in prostitution.

[–]artetolife 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They most likely are. Except they aren't killing themselves en mass like they claim to be, either. And that story kinda shows they don't really believe that society is that transphobic, if it was then nobody would care if they killed themselves.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I will happily support the genocide of having a queer identity. Having a "queer identity" is a meaningless concept that raises far more questions than it answers making it only a useful tool for disingenuous opportunists.

[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Bioessentialist

So, you're saying that trans isn't an innate part of who someone is? Why do we have to give a shit about it then?

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Their implication is that biology isn't actually real and people who think biology is real are crazy.

[–]Rosefield 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Don't care. Still refuse. 😂

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

No one is saying it but me.

[–]fuck_reddit 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

“You don’t HAVE to sleep with us, but if you don’t, you’re guilty of capital offenses, up to, and including, war crimes.”

[–]Chocolatepudding 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's all a bit rapey

[–]MyLongestJourney 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"if you are not sucking my dick you are killing me"

Drop dead rapey scum.

[–]Tiwaking 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

By outright refusing to have sex with men pretending to be women, Im indirectly murdering men pretending to be women?

MY LIFE IS COMPLETE

[–]censorshipment 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

So dramatic, but I do understand. When I used to feel like I needed sex, I felt like straight girls were depriving me of pussy lol my mom was like "bitch, no one owes you pussy." I stayed in my room for days. Thank goodness the internet wasn't poppin' yet or I would've been a 12-13 year old misogynist/incel on AOL or Yahoo.

Also, I think a lot of women (and gay men perhaps) internalize their inability to get sex. I've never blamed myself... I don't internalize my struggles lol I blame women for not recognizing how amazing I am (if I'm rejected which doesn't happen often). I think "trans lesbians" i.e. straight men do this too.

[–]MyLongestJourney 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I used to feel like I needed sex, I felt like straight girls were depriving me of pussy

100% homosexual woman here,never in my 40 + years of life had I the above thought or heard any of my fellow homosexual women say anything like you said.

[–]HelloMomo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think a lot of women (and gay men perhaps) internalize their inability to get sex.

I suspect just about everyone feels that way sometimes. Everyone is lonely and horny sometimes. Everyone is exhausted and frustrated with dating sometimes. Just that women and gay men are more sympathetic figures, and they're allowed to complain about it in a way that straight men aren't. Which I suspect harms them too — if they could be openly frustrated on occasion without that being vilified, maybe there'd be a few less incels.

How to be frustrated without feeling entailed — I'm not quite sure where to cut the line. For me personally, I tend to feel like fate owns me a better plotline, rather than feeling that my positional love interests owe me anything.