ColonizationBiromantic asexual with high libido needs some help

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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

more children sacrificed to gender ideology

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Uhm... maybe you're not into breasts because you're a straight girl and not because you're a "gay dude"? Maybe you find penises disgusting because you've never had any sort of sexual relationship with anyone? Maybe you think you're ace because you're a teenage girl and believe that no one has ever felt the way you do ever and you're super unique and special like all teenagers do?

These poor kids. I get being confused about your sexuality at that age, but all this shit just seems to make it harder to figure your shit out.

[–]sadbihours 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Really don’t like that teenagers fighting with their hormones are on reddit more often than not getting coached by pedos. But sure lets ban anyone thats “”“transphobic”””

[–]Wanderingthehalls 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I have known I'm probably asexual since I was 14-15.

Why the fuck is no-one telling teenagers that it's perfectly normal to have no experience of sexual desire at this age? Yes, some people have sexual feelings at this age but many don't until closer to adulthood. One of the girls in the comments is 20 and describes being sexually active for 5 years due to being pressured into having sex, before now realising they are grey-ace. No, you were pressured into sex before you were emotionally, and probably physically, ready and it has stunted your natural development of sexual desire. Take you time, deal with the fact that you had sex too early, learn to heal from the mixed up signals you've learned. Get to know your own body and what pleases you and the odds are you will. in time, learn who you are attracted to and experience normal sexual desire. What the actual fuck is wrong with our society that we are validating slower (than may be) average sexual development or sexual trauma as a sexuality and potentially permanently fucking up people's lives?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don’t want “chasers”. They don’t want to tell prospective partners. It seems we need some water tight laws to discourage their devious behaviour.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Someone else there commented about feeling similar things as a confused teenager. Without knowing for sure, I'm going to guess the OP is around that age range as well. She's talking about all of this like she just isn't there yet. "Ew bodies gross" is not what you'd call a mature attitude. If I were asexual, I still don't think I'd want to be associated with such childish utterances. Unless thinking bodies are gross is somehow required to qualify as asexual, which isn't something I've heard before, not that I'm paying much attention. (I don't think I want to know.)