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[–]julesburm1891[S] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Can’t they just ask people if they’re okay dating an FTM in the settings?

This got me too. The L, G, and most of the B have been asking for this for years so we don’t have to waste our time or wind up in uncomfortable/dangerous situations. Literally every time we advocate for it, they wail transphobia. When people put it clearly in their bio, they flip out and try to get their account deleted.

If they refuse to leave our spaces, they at least need to give us an avenue to say no for everyone’s sake.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 25 insightful - 10 fun25 insightful - 9 fun26 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

You're not supposed to say no. Don't you get it yet?

[–]julesburm1891[S] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m laughing but it’s so painfully true.

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bumble will show me trans women, non-binary, and trans men. What the fuck are the rules??