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[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Maybe it's just because I'm a Millennial, but I don't think this is Millennials and I'm a little frustrated by people continuing to blame Millenials for Gen Z's crazy bullshit. I know that generation lines are hazy and hard to define but Pew says that Millenials are 1981 - 1996, so the youngest Millennials would be 25. As far as I can tell, this stuff is mostly happening in colleges, which would be firmly the realm of Gen Z.

I don't doubt that more Millennials are saying they're LGBT than previous generations, because our generation was the one in which it really become socially acceptable to be gay, but most of the "it's a fad" stuff is surely 18 - 24 year olds, and younger.

These are the kids that I remember thinking about when I was in high school, coming up into elementary school when sports became a "nobody wins, everyone gets a participation trophy" affair. I remember thinking, "Wow, those kids are going to grow up and be so entitled and think they're so special with no good reason for it." And here we are.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a little frustrated by people continuing to blame Millenials for Gen Z's crazy bullshit.

It's both—I think the Millennials I have seen participate often show up as the TRA / enablers more than as the TQ+ trenders—but you're right, saddling Millennials with it exclusively is pretty inaccurate and I do think the Zoomers are more guilty at this point.

And here we are.

Yup.

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

but I don't think this is Millennials and I'm a little frustrated by people continuing to blame Millenials for Gen Z's crazy bullshit.

I am borderline Gen Z/millennial, depending on who you ask (some definitions include up to or even past born in 2000). I've seen some of this behavior in people a few years older than me, too, not just my age and younger. That would be the youngest millennials. It's also worth keeping in mind that many people take 5-6 years to complete college, at least here in the US, and that community colleges have a wider range of ages-- so gender identity beliefs could get promoted to somewhat older students, as well.

That being said, I think my generation (Z) is definitely leading the charge...

These are the kids that I remember thinking about when I was in high school, coming up into elementary school when sports became a "nobody wins, everyone gets a participation trophy" affair. I remember thinking, "Wow, those kids are going to grow up and be so entitled and think they're so special with no good reason for it." And here we are.

Honestly, I think social media is more of a factor behind the transgender trend than anything else. People my age seem anxious and depressed, and turn to in-groups for reassurance and support-- which they/we struggle to find elsewhere. Then they see this in-group, the "LGBTQ community," a bunch of their friends are in it and everyone in this group seems like they're all positivity and wholesomeness, and are like, "Hey, I want in on that." Then it's as easy as talking yourself into considering that you might have gender dysphoria and BAM, you're a Valid and Accepted Trans Person. Support system crisis averted. *

*except it's not

[–]strawberrycake 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’m a millennial too (late 20s) but this really is our fault. Our generation started this shit and is the one that is perpetuating it in institutions outside of academia.

[–]DimDroog 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, I believe it has its roots/tentacles in Postmodern bullshit, like Judith Butler, and Michael Foucault.

I hate it. Millennial's will out grow it. The stench of Postmodernism will still linger after everyone has moved on.