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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

For masculine do you mean the top bs of today? Or just being courting and assertive in dating more giving, like usually man is expected in relationship? A passive femme would want that kind of femme, not all femmes obviously. I do hope most lesbians are in the middle and more into a balanced equal relationship though.

[–]censorshipment 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Assertive, yeah. I think passive femmes are bisexual... I don't think any real lesbian is passive unless she has self-esteem issues or something... but she'd naturally be assertive with a great lesbian life coach or mentor.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know. Don't think being assertive or submissive has anything to do with your sexual orientation, especially in a sexual way. Although bi woman might fall more into the passive way, but just because they're used to man courting them and expect the same from women.