LifestyleFrustrations as a GNC Gay man (Trans/Nb Nonsense)

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[–]Criticallacitirc 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

So I would say I'm a gender neutral man, but I'm generally smooth & have long hair. So I often get hit up by chasers who say in their profiles they're "straight" & only into trans women. I'll specifically say, I'm not trans. They'll respond how it's okay and then they'll go off how they want to suck my cock or whatever.

I feel like the reason so many femme gnc guys have adopted a "non-man" identity is to soothe the delusions of their chasers. That it's not gay to suck a cock, because it's not a man. If these men could just admit they are atleast bisexual & are attracted to effeminate men, I would think some of this would calm down. Unfortunately I don't see that happening.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So I often get hit up by chasers who say in their profiles they're "straight" & only into trans women. I'll specifically say, I'm not trans. They'll respond how it's okay and then they'll go off how they want to suck my cock or whatever.

I feel like the reason so many femme gnc guys have adopted a "non-man" identity is to soothe the delusions of their chasers.

This is why I find trans-identified men like Blaire White so disingenuous when they say that the "straight" men they are with cannot possibly be bi because they are "only into transwomen and cis women." They sell this narrative to anyone watching while gay men feel gaslighted because we know for a damn fact that these men aren't only into surgically altered men on hormones- they often go for twinks, too, and any other guy who is thin and hairless. But if gay men speak out about this, we get met with a chorus of "hurr durr you can't tell someone what their sexual orientation is."

[–]Criticallacitirc 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

100% agree. However in Blaires SuperStraight video, she says none of the men that has been with her are entirely straight, she says they're probably 1 or 2s on the Kinsey scale.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Doesn't matter what he says. He's just too chickenshit to tell the truth. He knows damn well that no straight men are going for him period and that the men who try to get at him are Bisexuals (Most of them closeted). There's no need for the fucking kinsey scale in this equation, the simple fact of the matter is that he was/is attracting closet-case bisexuals, end of story. Sorry to be so blunt but I can't with Blaire and his disingenuous sense of self..