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This seems dangerous. These are straight men in wigs who have no idea what gay or lesbian "culture" or sexual dynamics are so they end up taking things they heard from gay men and transferring them on to lesbians, creating a feedback loop where they end up teaching lesbians about their own identities and culture through the most homophobic and distorted understanding of homosexuality that they might as well be old homophobic church women explaining how gay/lesbian relationships work.

Thank you, you put this into words in a way I was struggling to.