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[–]usehername 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

It actually isn't bad advice to at least think about why you have certain preferences, such as in personality or looks. The thing is, orientation isn't a preference and can't be changed by "examination" or any form of conversion therapy.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

From them it is bad advice. They want you to think your orientation is because of racism/colonialism/white supremacy or whatever else they can think of. Anyone who is telling you examine your preferences is only trying to get you to get over not wanting to sleep with them.

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anyone who is telling you examine your preferences is only trying to get you to get over not wanting to sleep with them.

True, but as someone with a very rigid type, I do wonder.