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[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 32 insightful - 7 fun32 insightful - 6 fun33 insightful - 7 fun -  (8 children)

Any advice about gay bars, revealing trans status, dating and interactions in gay men bars?

Yes, fuck off out of there.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

She has no business being in gay male spaces.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

there's so many general ~all-inclusive queer~ bars that are more full of straights, queerios and bisexuals who identify as pansexual or whatever than actual gays, she would literally have way better luck there, but instead she actively seeks out gay men because..... reasons....... imagine doing everything you can to intentionally lower your chances of getting laid because of your fetish and LARP. embarrassing.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This is why I support gay male spaces excluding women and lesbian spaces excluding men, because that way those "queer" heterosexuals will not be able to takeover our spaces. The only people who bitch about these places being "sexist" are those queer straight women who want to get Australian kisses from gay men.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly, same here. I don’t even feel comfortable going into men’s bars as a lesbian even if I’m with male friends. First of all, there’s men in there, I’m not interested at best and at worst I’m intimidated. Secondly, men don’t want women in their bars. Otherwise they’d just go to a normal straight bar. It’s common fucking sense.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wouldn’t feel comfortable going into a genuine lesbian bar, because those spaces are for lesbians and bisexual women and I would feel intrusive being in there. I’d also feel uncomfortable being in a fake lesbian bar because of the queer ideology being strong.

[–]Athelhilda2 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Are there even any lesbian spaces anymore? Tried looking in my city and just found gay bars.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbians definitely have it worse than gay men. There is no denying that. That’s why gay men and lesbians need to come together to stand up to the madness and support each other’s sex segregated spaces.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because being accepted into the all inclusive group is meaningless. Getting accepted into the highly exclusive group means you're special. For example, joining your middle school softball team means little while joining the NHL means you're good. The only problme here is that this person doesn't belong in the NHL and barely belongs on a middle school softball team