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[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 32 insightful - 7 fun32 insightful - 6 fun33 insightful - 7 fun -  (8 children)

Any advice about gay bars, revealing trans status, dating and interactions in gay men bars?

Yes, fuck off out of there.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

She has no business being in gay male spaces.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

there's so many general ~all-inclusive queer~ bars that are more full of straights, queerios and bisexuals who identify as pansexual or whatever than actual gays, she would literally have way better luck there, but instead she actively seeks out gay men because..... reasons....... imagine doing everything you can to intentionally lower your chances of getting laid because of your fetish and LARP. embarrassing.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This is why I support gay male spaces excluding women and lesbian spaces excluding men, because that way those "queer" heterosexuals will not be able to takeover our spaces. The only people who bitch about these places being "sexist" are those queer straight women who want to get Australian kisses from gay men.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly, same here. I don’t even feel comfortable going into men’s bars as a lesbian even if I’m with male friends. First of all, there’s men in there, I’m not interested at best and at worst I’m intimidated. Secondly, men don’t want women in their bars. Otherwise they’d just go to a normal straight bar. It’s common fucking sense.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wouldn’t feel comfortable going into a genuine lesbian bar, because those spaces are for lesbians and bisexual women and I would feel intrusive being in there. I’d also feel uncomfortable being in a fake lesbian bar because of the queer ideology being strong.

[–]Athelhilda2 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Are there even any lesbian spaces anymore? Tried looking in my city and just found gay bars.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbians definitely have it worse than gay men. There is no denying that. That’s why gay men and lesbians need to come together to stand up to the madness and support each other’s sex segregated spaces.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because being accepted into the all inclusive group is meaningless. Getting accepted into the highly exclusive group means you're special. For example, joining your middle school softball team means little while joining the NHL means you're good. The only problme here is that this person doesn't belong in the NHL and barely belongs on a middle school softball team

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 25 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

So, she hates gay men, thinks we are carriers of dangerous diseases, and talks shite about us, and yet she wants us to have sex with her? Delusional. Although that doesn’t surprise me.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879[S] 21 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Someone's really confused there. And what's with not wanting to disclose that they're trans when it comes to sex/dating? Do they think men are blind?

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she probably thinks if you do enough mental gymnastics you can close your eyes and ignore the fact that she has a vagina and imagine a dick and balls in its place. yknow, the gay male version of "lie back and think of england"

[–]supersmokio6420 15 insightful - 10 fun15 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

Have these idiots never heard of straight men? We'll go fucking scuba diving in there if you just lay off the male hormones for a bit.

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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

As this movement proves, you can be female and an incel and fetishist. Or in their twisted minds does this prove they really have a male “gender identity?”

[–]JulienMayfair 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a gay man in his fifties, probably about the same age as the poster here, I'm going to be a little kinder. I remember having the same fear of HIV/AIDS back then because it was, at the time, pretty much a death sentence. I'd be lying if I said living through that time didn't leave its mark on me. And, yes, some gay men do engage in a lot of sex. Guilty as charged. We're men. I understand what John Rechy meant when he coined the word 'sexhunt.'

That said, I don't think this person's chances are very good, knowing my own demographic. I know what men look for in 50-something gay men, and many gay men my age are not interested in FTMs. Older FTMs are also less likely to have what some younger gay men into older gay men are looking for.

So, I'd say don't get your hopes up . . .

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it was deleted, but lmao at the weirdos in the comments talking about how they've had all this sex with gay men. y'all know bisexual guys go to those bars too right? this is like guys bragging they went home with a lesbian they met at a lgbt bar when actually there's a lot of bi women there too.

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It was deleted.