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[–]MBMayfair[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

How can any parent in good faith, no less a mother who was likely physically weaker than this man, accurately convey the gravity of what happened without using that language?

That people can’t see the inherent misogyny in requiring female victims of male violence to pretend they were assaulted by their fellow women is beyond me.

Yes yes yes yes yes. Your concise words, they make my belly warm and full. Thank you.

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Hah, I've never heard a reaction described that way but I tend to have a similar one to u/yousaythosethings's comments. :)

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Me too! They really hit the spot, don't they? :)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! You are too kind. ☺️ The feeling is mutual.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Aww thank you! 🥰 You know I feel the same way about your comments and contributions.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, I am honored to hear that, especially coming from you :) your comments are definitely a disproportionate number of my "saved" comments/posts, haha. (I know some people think there's no "save" function on Saidit but there is on the mobile version.)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

While I’m glad you can understand where I’m coming from and that my words resonated with you, it’s a shame that it has to be on this topic. But I do find comfort in finding other people who haven’t lost their minds in this madness.