I have the same feeling when I see non-binary she/theys, who look like average girly girls to me. This just pisses me off because it reminds me of a certain sense of shame I had for not performing feminity like most of my female classmates but instead I pretty much avoided makeup and styled hair to avoid being girly. I generally had issues with feminity and I often envied boys and basically wanted to be "one of the boys" instead of being seen as just an object of having crushes on instead of seeing me just as their pal. I still hate the idea of being girly so it's fucking insane to me you see your average girly full on makeup Jessica saying she actually isn't a woman and her pronouns are she/they or they/them. It horribly pisses me off. I somehow feel somehow trolled or even mocked? It's hard for me to explain it.