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[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is the first I've ever heard of someone seeking "friendship" on a dating app that actually means it.

Don't attribute to malice what can be explained by stupidity, she thinks she's being super casual and letting other women know what to expect. Maybe you gave her a heads up that it doesn't work like that.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

That's generally what straight girls are looking for on Her, though. It's always 'looking for friendship', which is code for 'I want a female friend who is sexually attracted to me but I never plan on reciprocating and instead love to bask in her admiration because I have low self esteem'. I'd never look for a straight man on a dating site for friendship, but I guess straight women are something else, huh?

[–]Tikiri 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

THIS!