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[–]slushpilot 32 insightful - 18 fun32 insightful - 17 fun33 insightful - 18 fun -  (2 children)

Thanks for this... I think I finally figured it out.

"Asexual" just means "Virgin"

[–]censorshipment 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

I used to think that, but I've learned from Reddit that women who aren't sexually interested in their partners have sex out of obligation. Not sure if they have low sex drives or they have (bad) partners who don't (try to) turn them on.

I once read a post where a woman said sex was very painful. She wasn't aroused, and her husband didn't use any lubricant. But she loved him, so she basically suffered for him. Yikes!

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I swear I never understood these people forcing themselves to have sex they don't want to have and asexual communities basically praising it as a so normal.