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[–]censorshipment 5 insightful - 7 fun5 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

As usual, I agree with the trans folks. Cutting my hair 13 years ago was both a racial and "gender" decision for me as a black butch. My girlfriend cried because I looked "more manly" as she put it. She wanted me to look like a soft butch. Ugh 😒

Nowadays, "the big chop" is so common among (young) straight black women and nonblack lesbians.

[–]usehername[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What don't you agree with them on? Sorry she treated you that way.