It’s not expected within the back community, other than some places online. I don’t know any black people who aren’t trans themselves who buy into this bullshit irl, in fact all of the older TW i know hate the direction tras are going in and have no problem acknowledging that they aren’t actually women. I know a few younger black trans people, and one “non binary” woman who is the victim of extreme sexual abuse and turned to the non binary ideology out of trauma, and they all complain that their family, friends who aren’t a part of the community, and people they date don’t see them as they wish to be seen.

As others have said, go to lipstickAlley or try the guilt tripping irl and they’d get roasted before they could finish a sentence.

It’s actually infuriating to me when people imply that because I’m black and black people have the history of oppression that we have that I’m somehow obligated to play pretend for trans people.

It may be more likely among teens and very young adults, but even then I don’t think it’s common, just more common than with older generations, if that makes sense.