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[–]hufflepuff-poet 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

One girlfriend is a ton of work, I don't understand how people can have multiple healthy commited romantic relationships AND a satisfying personal life, how do you split the time between all of your partners in an equitable way?! (Maybe I'm just a needy person but I want my partner's attention basically whenever we both have free time, the thought of her being with someone else in the same way would be heartbreaking...)

And if all of the relationships aren't equitable, then why not just say you're single but "casually" dating multiple people...aka regular modern dating.

[–]kwallio 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don't, really. Its all superficial.

[–]theytookourjerbsXX only. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well I'm currently single, so I wouldn't know exactly how it works, but if I've ever try it, I would explain. I bet they have a calendar to separate any event and other things they need to do. But if I ever go into that direction, I wouldn't adopt because I've heard disastrous things about children with polyamorous or polygamous families.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Some of them started wearing the icon from Google Calendar as a lapel pin.