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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 41 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 0 fun42 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Jesus, I'm so sorry. The amount of stories I've read similar to yours is shocking. It's pretty clear that trans women are looking SPECIFICALLY for lesbians. Not straight women, not bi women, not "queer women" not even pan women. They're clearly AGP and fetishize lesbians and as soon as they find one they become obsessed to satisfy their fetish. It's sickening. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. But I'm glad at least your friends support and agree with you.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer[S] 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That really sucks that you've read similar stories so many times, it's dreadful. People like him are so obviously mentally ill but no one wants to address the elephant in the room. It feels almost like when men would try to convert lesbians and say they just haven't found the right dick yet - only now the argument is that I should date a male BECAUSE I'm a lesbian, not because I'm secretly not or because sexuality is fluid. It makes it so much worse. He literally showed absolutely zero interest in me before finding out, probably even negative interest tbh. Other lesbians should be wary when interacting with trans women in any context

[–]RealCubeDreamer 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I couldn't agree more. I joined a lesbian choir that soon got infested with these horrible men, to a one mentally ill. Then I joined two women's choirs that have not a single trans natal male. These men are very specifically seeking anything lesbian that they can be a part of and younger women are infuriatingly open to letting them in.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ughhh a lesbian choir would be my dream!! Gahh I wish I lived in a time with a thriving lesbian social scene, I'm gonna do my damnedest to build these spaces for myself and the lesbians who come after me!