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[–]panderichthys 36 insightful - 15 fun36 insightful - 14 fun37 insightful - 15 fun -  (5 children)

You're quite literally 19/20 of the female population. Another 19/20 of the male population are able to find you attractive by default. Even if half of all straight men think you're disgusting or simply aren't into you, that's still two billion men. If we cut that in half to leave out all the boys and old men, that's still a billion. And if we cut that in half again, twice, to account for all the taken men, you still have over 250 million potential partners. If you're still having trouble meeting someone, let's just say the problem probably isn't with "tHosE eViL cIs mEn"

[–]8bitgay 29 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, that. Even if you considered that transmen are just like cis men, the reality is still that there are more straight men than gay/bi men. And many gay/bi men are afraid of being open about their sexuality due to homophobia.

This is an issue we all pass as gay men. We simply have to accept that we have less dating options than straight people. It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If only she could leave gays alone she may would find a boyfriend. The reason why she can’t get a boy is cause she’s probably going after gays, when she’s female.

If she leave her fetishes aside she probably could find a boy. I know plenty of straight women who are gender non conforming and have boyfriends and husbands. But guess what.. their boys are bi/het. I had a ex girlfriend who were the butch of the butches I have ever met, she look like a guy, not only because of her style (clothes, hair cut, behavior) even her physical features were very masculine, 1.80 cm tall, very strong strong jaw, wide shoulders due to professional swimming since child, and yet there were boys hitting on her, most of her male friends had tried shit with her, unfortunately. So it’s not like there’s no heterosexual (and bi) men who likes masculine women at all.

The thing with those kids now is that they’re very sexist, even more than the previous generation I would guess. They are all about gender roles. So they think that, if they don’t fit the heterosexual sexist stereotypes they must not be heterosexual, despite fitting right in the descriptive definition of heterosexual.

[–]reluctant_commenter 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's interesting that they claim they are real gay men, but when confronted with an actual situation that gay men face they just genderhack their way out of it.

It's because transmen want to pick and choose when they have to be gay men, just like transwomen pick and choose which parts of being a "woman" or a "lesbian" they want to experience.

[–]Eurowoman24 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

ah yes girl mode.. not privilege there!

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. It makes me so angry I have no word.