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[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's how conniving assholes operate. They have just enough social awareness to realize that certain things cross a line and justify their prey in defending themselves - in this case it's making totally absolute, controlling statements and commands - so they leave just enough wiggle room to let lesbians fill in the blanks and cow themselves on their own energy. It leaves a massive wound for future manipulations too, they just follow up every accusation with teary eyes and "I never said you *had" to, how could you think I'm so awful? You're the terrible person here, you must be crazy."

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s a prime example of gaslighting in a single paragraph.