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[–]julesburm1891 25 insightful - 8 fun25 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

A.

there are a lot of pre-op people and a lot of non-op people who you’re making feel invalidated by either reminding them that you hate penises for whatever reason and they’re left out of actual lesbian relationships by some of you

B.

you don’t have to sleep with pre-op/non-op trans girls if you don’t want to

Pick one, OP.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's how conniving assholes operate. They have just enough social awareness to realize that certain things cross a line and justify their prey in defending themselves - in this case it's making totally absolute, controlling statements and commands - so they leave just enough wiggle room to let lesbians fill in the blanks and cow themselves on their own energy. It leaves a massive wound for future manipulations too, they just follow up every accusation with teary eyes and "I never said you *had" to, how could you think I'm so awful? You're the terrible person here, you must be crazy."

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s a prime example of gaslighting in a single paragraph.