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[–]peaked2020 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Your ideal world is only useful for bi and straight... it’s not very easy to find a woman who is open to dating other women. It seems like the thing a bi woman with very little experience with women would say...

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's exactly what I thought lmaaaaao. People who say this stuff "why label ourselves" are practically always either straight kind of homophobic people like "you might find a great man one day, you'll never know!" or bisexual people either because they're fluid and so either sex doesn't matter so labels aren't that important or insecure bisexual people, who can't have the courage to own the fact they're bi so they keep on saying these crappy things" everyone's on a spectrum bla bla bla, I don't need a label". It's so funny because it's clear that the people who understood me the most on here were the lesbians, for obvious reasons 😂 I'll reply to everyone after exam.

[–]Ladis_Wascheharuum 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know the world we live in is far from the ideal. It's not bad to try to imagine a better world, though? One where lesbians aren't degraded or endangered and are free to act similar to straights in their dating strategy? I'm trying to give OP some more perspective on what her friend might be like, which she asked for.

[–]peaked2020 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have not been here in a while. It’s not that we are not “free” to do it, it’s that it is pointless. You can ask 100 women out, maybe 1-5 of those will be open to serious dating or marriage with a woman. Then comes whether they personally find you attractive and dates go well. Your suggestion is great for bi and straight looking for men and maybe casual encounters with women. It does not help lesbians