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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Exactly and all of the spaces they colonize like r/actuallesbians become void of any discussion of anything actually lesbian/gay/homosexual. Just anime and low rent memes about lesbian stereotypes they often made up themselves. No evidence in there that any of them have any idea of what it’s like to be both female and homosexual. Or even female and attracted to any female ever because in addition to the transbians, the r/LBL subreddit creates a steady pipeline of lonely straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re bisexual or lesbian and bestows upon them this lesbian lifestyle fantasy completely disconnected from reality. It’s why they’re always talking about penises and never pussy in there. Meanwhile the realities of actually being gay get discussed in r/askgaybros and s/LGBDroptheT and used to get discussed in r/truelesbians. And they hate that because if anyone compared that to what they have in r/LGBT and r/actuallesbians, they would know who’s legit immediately. So ofc they want to destroy/colonize those spaces because they prove what fantasizing phonies they are.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, the whole idea of topping/bottoming has run rampant in the lesbian community because of, what I believe, transbians and young, inexperienced lesbians who get their education from lesbian porn (aimed at men) and thinking that straight (and some gay (male)) dynamics apply to lesbians as well, which they don't, at least not in my experience.