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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 31 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The line in my opinion is that you should not show someone genitals they're not expecting. So if you're pre- or non-GRS that's something you should disclose before getting (that) intimate. Not doing that first of all could be extremely dangerous for you, and also just isn't a good time to spring it on someone even if they're totally fine with it.

This started off so well and then

Other than that I don't think there's any moral obligation for anything. I'd say treat it the same way you would treat a) finding out whether someone has the same values as you and b) finding out whether you're sexually compatible in general (eg if you're a stone top I'd also recommend having a conversation about it before you go to have sex for the first time).

No, having the wrong gentials and biological sex is not the same as having the wrong values. Wrong values don't get erect 'in a feminine way'.

The people telling you you're a deceiver if you don't disclose that before the first date are full of shit. Get to know someone first if that's what's comfortable for you!

Fuck this asshole. I don't know what I expected from this sub.