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[–]Lizzythelezzo 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly it's okay to admit the reality to yourself - I have found the same thing, that most trans people have Cluster B personality disorders and are highly dissociative people. I mean you'd have to dissociate pretty damn hard to really believe that you're in the wrong body and your actual gender is different to the one you were born with. I do feel compassion for people who are so mentally ill, but it doesn't excuse toxic or abusive behaviour.

I was a TRA for a number of years and I still have a number of trans people and TRAs as friends, but I am cautious about getting too close to them as I find personality disordered people can burn you when you get too close. Some of them are fine as acquaintances or casual friends though. I tend not to be very open about my beliefs for various reasons, except with friends who I know are also GC.