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[–]AppleTapple 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Honestly, being trans myself, I'm really concerned that this is an actual problem. The genuine trans community isn't like this. I hope LGB drop the T can see our frustration with this because real trans people don't think this way and have never had this problem before until these recent years. Being trans isn't a fetish, it's an identity. I can't imagine forcing anyone to do anything with me if they didn't want to. Trans people want to blend in, not stand out. What do you mean by "appropriation of terms?"

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you call out TRA's and other Trans people for trying to force natal people into sleeping with trans people?

[–]AppleTapple 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, but I don't really see it anywhere. People who act like that aren't going to listen to anyone, even if said person was trans. I'd get called transphobic and truscum and shut out of anything before I even had the chance to say sh*t. If I had more of a platform, I would definitely try to do something about it.

[–]artetolife 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think all of us who were around before the crazy new wave of gender woo woo know that there are perfecty reasonable trans people and think it's terrible that they're being caught in the backlash against unscrupulous TRAs.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For me it started going off the rails when they convinced doctors that the term "Gender Identity Disorder" was "transphobic" . People were way more realistic before that.

[–]luckystar 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For appropriation, I can think of many. Of course some people will argue that transgender itself is appropriating the opposite sex (this is especially sensitive for women b/c sexism exists).

The phrase "assigned sex at birth" is appropriated from the intersex community. Transactivists also use intersex people constantly in their arguments even though intersex orgs have pleaded to be left out of these debates because they're really completely separate issues.

Transbians just hit wrong. I feel like unless you're Blaire White, a trans woman is usually pretty clockable, even the ones who claim to be "stealth", and many of them are just blatantly male (like Yaniv or Stefonknee etc). It's hard to not see them as heterosexual men.

I've also seen trans people use the term "femme", which originated as a term lesbians use (butch vs femme). Honestly lesbians don't even really like the terms much but to use them out of context is still appropriation and weird. A lot of "trans femmes" when they mean "trans women" (or if they're mirroring transmasc, then it should be transfem). The other day I saw someone use "assigned femmes" meaning "AFABs". It was an appropriation within an appropriation. Bleah.