That time my girlfriend(at the time) defended Riley J Dennis and Rachel McKinnon to me. "if you're legit attracted to someone and want to date them, but finding out they have a dick and thus are trans kills that maybe there's some underlying bigotry shit there." She then backpedaled with something along the lines of nooooo I don't think genital preferences are necessarily transphobic, I just think people should be more introspective on why they don't like dicks!!! Like honey, this is definitely not the nuanced gigabrain take you think it is. As a lesbian I have literally been told this shit about regular dudes multiple times, it turns out that not much changes at all if they put on a cheap dress. A big part of the reason why she's my ex, tbh. That and the fact that I was always a lower priority in her life than her emotional vampire of a trans friend who would cry "dysphoria" solely to manipulate people, but that's a whole other story.