Besides random shit people are saying on the internet, what has happened or been said to you IRL that makes you want to drop the T?

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[–]julesburm1891 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

  1. Pre-peaking, a friend told me to read The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson. Afterwards, I pointed out the obvious fact that the author was a straight woman pretending to be gay while also telling gays and lesbians how to live their lives. The friend got angry at me and told me I was an obtuse bigot. We stopped speaking after that.

  2. I had the audacity that to point out that Ezra Miller is a straight guy who likes makeup and that doesn’t make him gay or able to speak on behalf of gay people. A different friend told me I was a homophobic asshole for that.

  3. Met a real-life AGP transbian who very clearly fetishizes lesbians. I got to watch a bunch of people pretend it was fine and normal.

  4. Being told by a longtime friend that sexuality is fluid and that I should go with the flow.

  5. Seeing national gay rights organizations (e.g. GLAAD) tout the exact same ideas I had rammed down my throat in conversion therapy as progressive.

  6. Having to stop going to the gay bar in town because it was overrun with creepy transwomen.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Pre-peaking, a friend told me to read The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson. Afterwards, I pointed out the obvious fact that the author was a straight woman pretending to be gay while also telling gays and lesbians how to live their lives.

I'm not familiar with Maggie Nelson, is she trans identified or something?

Met a real-life AGP transbian who very clearly fetishizes lesbians. I got to watch a bunch of people pretend it was fine and normal.

Please drop some stories.

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Am also really curious to hear more about that second piece!

[–]fuck_reddit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I havent read it, but a book review i read basically says she claims to be “”queer”” because her bio male bf is “fluidly-gendered” (and ofc they have a kid together, soooooo queer of them, ugh).