I used to have a better view on truscum. I've seen some reasonable comments there even this week, but it seems like recently there are more and more anti-LG comments there. I wonder if the TRA narrative is getting stronger across different groups, or maybe the sub was always like that and I just didn't see enough of it before.

It's funny because the TRA/tucutes hate truscums. Yet here you have truscums sharing the same TRA narrative.

I'm absolutely fine with a woman saying to me that they don't want to date / sleep with me if I have male genitals, I'm not here to enforce that on anyone. I don't want to date you either in that case. Does it hurt? Yeah, but it saves us both grief that way.

I mean, this is an inch better than TRA I guess, since TRA would have said that the woman is transphobic. So close yet so far. If you think this saves you both grief, wouldn't an app that makes it clear save you both grief too? I don't expect to find a date in a straight nightclub, and it saves me grief if I know which nightclub has a straight audience and which one has a gay audience.

and I'm kinda pleased to have beat the system.

So in the end it was all just about a shallow try at self validation? ...