DiscussionWhy are lesbians more compliant with TRA than gay men?

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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

doesn't work for me, baby, I'm the opposite of submissive

I'm mostly a bottom actually (kind of a switch - 70 bottom/30 top lmao), but only top femmes do turn me on. Top butches don't 🤷 They're really different from each other, despite being both top.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Yeah, I bet a top butch would be all about some dildo, maybe even pretending to get a blowjob lol And also there is all the fact of being wary of how you treat them or touch them, because their fragile masculinity. Who would want that shit?

[–]strictly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yeah, I bet a top butch would be all about some dildo, maybe even pretending to get a blowjob lol And also there is all the fact of being wary of how you treat them or touch them, because their fragile masculinity. Who would want that shit?

I happen to be a stone and technically butch too. If a woman wanted to pretend giving me a blowjob (yikes) I would leave. And I've never suggested using dildos. I'm physically uncomfortable with being toched in certain ways (don't know why) but as I have never desired such touch in the first place I see it as non-issue. In my eyes sex acts should be consensual and I just don't consent to these, I think that is okay. I'm of course open with it to potential partners and if someone isn't into that shit, well good for her, I don't judge. I don't care if someone turned off by butches either, each to their own (I'm personally not that into super femmes who seem too nice and inclusive).

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, what I was talking there is a link about being masculine and not wanting to be be touched in a certain way. Like yeah I love to be sexually dominant, but I also don't mind to being dominated too and do not have any rules about touched. Because I'm a femme, I don't have to fit some kind of male role.

[–]strictly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

what I was talking there is a link about being masculine and not wanting to be be touched in a certain way

For me not wanting to be touched that way has nothing to with wanting to live up to some masculine ideal, I just don't desire it. I would be considered butch because I'm unfeminine but me being butch and stone is just a coincidence.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Everyone has the right to feel as they like and refuse any act they don't want. But it wouldnt work for me.

[–]strictly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As said further above, I am for free choice so I am not at all bothered by people who don't want to be with stones. I only object to the idea that butches/stones would all want pretend blowjobs (not something I would be into at all) or are trying to live up to some masculine ideal. Note, I'm sure there people like that but I still think it's individual.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not you are. I just said that there would be more probability of them being into mimic male behaviour. Of course. It change from person to person. The touch thing is a pattern though.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I mean, there are some really sweet butch women out there, just not my cup of tea personally.

I bet a top butch would be all about some dildo

Yeah, I kind of have to agree with you on this. Top butch women do tend much more often than femmes to want to use the dildo or a strap-on, something I'm REALLY NOT a fan of. It's really weird for me, that idea of sex. With a femme is a totally different the approach, much hotter for me. 😍 (I don't have nothing against people who use dildos or strap on though of course)

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I hate fucking dildos. Phallo completely turn me off and are completely shit in getting women off anyway. Best thing about lesbian sex is the lack of it, So the idea of performing a fake sex act (fake cause there is no real person part stimulating the other just plastic, the opposite of real sexual intimacy) with a fake phallo is total turn off. I'm a great top with my own pussy and fingers, which also get a woman off one millions type better than a phallo could ever hope to do ;)