DiscussionWhy are lesbians more compliant with TRA than gay men?

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[–]strictly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yeah, I bet a top butch would be all about some dildo, maybe even pretending to get a blowjob lol And also there is all the fact of being wary of how you treat them or touch them, because their fragile masculinity. Who would want that shit?

I happen to be a stone and technically butch too. If a woman wanted to pretend giving me a blowjob (yikes) I would leave. And I've never suggested using dildos. I'm physically uncomfortable with being toched in certain ways (don't know why) but as I have never desired such touch in the first place I see it as non-issue. In my eyes sex acts should be consensual and I just don't consent to these, I think that is okay. I'm of course open with it to potential partners and if someone isn't into that shit, well good for her, I don't judge. I don't care if someone turned off by butches either, each to their own (I'm personally not that into super femmes who seem too nice and inclusive).

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, what I was talking there is a link about being masculine and not wanting to be be touched in a certain way. Like yeah I love to be sexually dominant, but I also don't mind to being dominated too and do not have any rules about touched. Because I'm a femme, I don't have to fit some kind of male role.

[–]strictly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

what I was talking there is a link about being masculine and not wanting to be be touched in a certain way

For me not wanting to be touched that way has nothing to with wanting to live up to some masculine ideal, I just don't desire it. I would be considered butch because I'm unfeminine but me being butch and stone is just a coincidence.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Everyone has the right to feel as they like and refuse any act they don't want. But it wouldnt work for me.

[–]strictly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

As said further above, I am for free choice so I am not at all bothered by people who don't want to be with stones. I only object to the idea that butches/stones would all want pretend blowjobs (not something I would be into at all) or are trying to live up to some masculine ideal. Note, I'm sure there people like that but I still think it's individual.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not you are. I just said that there would be more probability of them being into mimic male behaviour. Of course. It change from person to person. The touch thing is a pattern though.