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[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 39 insightful - 3 fun39 insightful - 2 fun40 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

There we have it. The truth a lot of FTMs don't want us to know.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 25 insightful - 20 fun25 insightful - 19 fun26 insightful - 20 fun -  (2 children)

Truth that all straight women are just gay men?

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 45 insightful - 5 fun45 insightful - 4 fun46 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

LOL! No, the truth that some straight girls are so obsessed with yaoi that they feel like their love of men is "gay". It's so sad. I think there's some internalised misogyny going on there.

Also, I'm tired of seeing some FTMs justify being "gay" by saying they've always had crushes on gay men. Being heterosexual means being attracted to the opposite sex, and sometimes you're unlucky and fall for someone who can't reciprocate. Just because you're crushing on gay guys doesn't mean you're a gay man. It just means you like men.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That does seem like a large aspect of the trans problem. People of any orientation who honestly can't come to grips with the fact that some people are just off limits and can never return their affection. So they warp and bend that square peg to fit that round hole, or at least try to.

Then another large aspect of course, are the narcissists, manipulators, selfish opportunists, who are fully aware of how much advantage they're taking by encroaching on spaces where they do not belong, taking on labels which are meant for others, and forcing themselves on people in one-sided relationships that should not exist.

The first kind of trans is still reachable. Can perhaps be reasoned with along as they're not completely locked down in denial. The second kind can be super-glued to the train tracks or something..