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[–]midnight305 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank you.

Its so hard trying to find anyone in this fuckrd up world anymore.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You're most welcome :)

And yeah... it is. Though to be honest?

Kinda think 'twas ever thus, you know? Like the saying goes: "A good man [or woman of course] is hard to find."

But if these lesbians are turning up their noses at any woman who (horrors!) isn't a "gold star", then you must be far from alone, right? That means other women are out there, looking. The non-gold-stars.

So forget the snooty gold-stars. Look for the non-gold-stars like you, who are looking, too.

And maybe you'll find your "anyone" there. And find that you're her "anyone", too. :)

[–]midnight305 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope so I been trying for 10 years now.

Mostly all i get is disgusting nudes , people asking me to come to their house alone at night , or people yelling at me about how transphobic I am because I have " real women only please " and " no couples," on my dating profile because I got sick of guys and couple traffic.

Like I'm not stupid enough to go to someone's house alone again . It's how I got raped in the first place . But that's how people meet anymore and it makes me super fucking uncomfortable.

Not sure about other states, but Kentucky, wv, and ohio they dont want to meet in public and just expect you to come to their house.

So me saying no turns people away too.

I mean ....I dont know what to do I want to meet people but it has to be a public place ....