Yeah I was thinking more about the father angle and it's a poor argument. I was curious though and looked around to see of cases of fathers using women's bathrooms to change their baby's diapers and the women were saying they didn't have a problem with it and I think the difference between a father using the space and a creepy fetishistic AGP is that the father comes in with a baby and changing supplies which should signal that he's just there to change his baby's diaper and believe me, I know that there can be the possibility of a man using the child as a prop to gain access to female only spaces but thankfully so far I didn't come across any cases of this.

Nonetheless, you're right that it's a weak argument he made on that part. I'm not sure if this guy is a "male feminist" to be honest but I wouldn't be surprised if he was.

The racism definitely annoys me but there's not much I can say on that angle that this pissant won't try to twist so I probably won't even bother addressing it.