Turns out the transgender MMA fighter who beat up a woman participated in a "Lolita" meetup

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    [–]chiobu[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

    Yeah he sounds unhinged in some posts:

    You totally caught me. I'm just trying to sneak up on you with my fairy wand, aka girl-dick to sprinkle magical goo on you that will turn you into a homosexual. :P

    I'm going to have to disagree. A trans woman has no obligation to disclose. It's probably not smart to withhold the information, especially if she hasn't had surgery, but she is in no way assaulting someone by not disclosing the status of her genitals before sex. And often if she DOES disclose that information she's very likely to be beaten, raped, or killed because of it. If she's had surgery she definitely doesn't have any obligation to disclose, especially since it's likely that her partner would never know otherwise. I feel like it's a bit dishonest if she doesn't and I personally would always disclose, but again, she's under no obligation. You can't catch transsexuality by touching one of us. We're not deadly tricksters that want to turn you gay. And honestly if things haven't gotten sexual then what right do you have to know what's in our pants? At what point are we obligated to tell you that we're trans? The first smile? The first conversation? If we're not having sex, it's none of your business, frankly. It might be frustrating to you that you run the risk of making out with a trans woman (oh noes!) but it can and does literally get us killed, so I'm sorry but I think a trans woman's safety comes before a potential partner's fear that they might be grossed out.

    Do you have an ovarit account? Wanna share this there but I'd need an invite code

    [–]Baileyscheesecakes 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    "If she's had surgery . . . it's likely that her partner would never know otherwise."

    I've read at least one comment from a man (not a big sample size, true) saying that the faux vagina does not feel or look like a real vagina at all, and that the placement is notably different. It seems reasonable to assume that many other men would definitely know something wasn't right. The quoted statement seems like wishful thinking.

    [–]chiobu[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Yeah, been told by some who got "tricked" that it's rather obvious. That's if they had the real thing before though lol. I really don't pity those who get assaulted for trying to be stealth, it's messed up to lie to people that way.

    [–]lefterfield 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    It's absolutely a betrayal of trust and intimacy. Even if this is just a one-night stand(which I'd hope it would be...) it's entirely reasonable for the men to view is as an attack on their sexuality. I would, even if I wouldn't resort to violence.

    [–]chiobu[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah, they were not sober too if I recall. That's why I don't understand how they can sound smug sometimes about not declaring it to their partners if they're afraid of getting violent reactions. Sometimes it sounds like they just want to pull a "gotcha!" on people :/