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[–]chiobu[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, been told by some who got "tricked" that it's rather obvious. That's if they had the real thing before though lol. I really don't pity those who get assaulted for trying to be stealth, it's messed up to lie to people that way.

[–]lefterfield 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's absolutely a betrayal of trust and intimacy. Even if this is just a one-night stand(which I'd hope it would be...) it's entirely reasonable for the men to view is as an attack on their sexuality. I would, even if I wouldn't resort to violence.

[–]chiobu[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, they were not sober too if I recall. That's why I don't understand how they can sound smug sometimes about not declaring it to their partners if they're afraid of getting violent reactions. Sometimes it sounds like they just want to pull a "gotcha!" on people :/