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[–]tu_jode_mucho 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

One way I've seen in my personal life: before the pandemic when my company was still in the office there was a TW coworker who would dress very provocatively in women's clothes wearing really high heels, fishnets, midriff showing, chocker, excessive makeup, etc. This person was never harassed, ogled, or reprimanded. It was pretty clear that only a male could come to work in a professional setting dressed like a street-walker and still be left in peace to their work. If that was an actual woman she would've been harassed, leered at and ogled, and very possibly asked by management or HR to change into more appropriate attire.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

But you don't understand, dressing like a street-walker validates "her" "woman" identity and... " lol I can't.

That is really dumb though that he's allowed to dress that way and not get reprimanded for it. It's clear he's dressing for his fetish.

[–]tu_jode_mucho 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yea it was super creepy. He was like 6'2ish with long greasy hair, just imagine the typical weirdo TIM on twitter in real life. There were 4 TIMs at the office and one TIF. All of the TIMs used the women's bathroom but for some reason the TIF would wait as long as she needed to use the single bathroom and never used the men's. Hmmm such mystery I wonder why that is...

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eugh I cannot imagine. Where did you work??? That's crazy that you had 5 TIMs in one workplace setting. I'm guessing you worked for something like IT or tech related? Either way, that's terrible. And yeah it's pretty clear why the TIF didn't use the men's restroom...

[–]TheOnyxGoddess 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's just not sexy and the males know that's a male. The double standard they hold against women. Wear warmer clothing and have the aircon turn onto really cold and see if he still dresses like a prostitute, he should cover up like the rest of the women in a corporate workplace setting.