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[–]yousaythosethings 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yes we’ve joked about the ridiculousness in lesbian spaces. How is anyone supposed to know their own sexual orientation based on their stupid rules? Who knows what lunacy everyone you’ve ever been intimidate with has bought into at some point and why should that affect how you view yourself? The effect is that everyone ends up “pansexual” whether they like it or not. Why is why I always think “spicy straight” when I hear pansexual.

That’s why I hate identity and reject sexual orientation as inherently an identity. Sure, you can identify as a lesbian, as long as you’re actually a homosexual female. Otherwise what are you possibly identifying as?