lots of straight men like women with cocks and lots of gay men like men with pussies

This person doesn't understand what heterosexual and homosexual mean. I also suspect he's very young and has had very little RL experience with other gay men. Do you know how old he is?

Most gay men would laugh their asses off at the idea that liking "men with pussies" is something many gay men do - or any gay men do, for that matter. Being into dicks and male bodies is the defining characteristic of being a gay man.

When most people say "woman" they are refering to gender (because they aren't talking about arbitraty sex organ differences).

1) There's nothing "arbitrary" about sex organ differences, or all the other thousands of biological differences between male and female humans. Evolution and biology are not random or based on personal whim.

2) Which people is he speaking of when he says "most people" mean gender not the sex category when they use the word "woman"? Where do these people live? How old are they? What is their religious and class background? Their ethnicity? Do any of them have children? Have any of them studied biology, medicine or law?

Back when I was growing up and a young adult in the US in the 60s and 70s, the laws that barred girls and women from getting bank loans, obtaining their own credit cards, working without their husband's permission if married, applying for a vast range of jobs, attending certain schools, taking particular classes in school, entering numerous professions, being eligible for various work promotions, having access to school sports and PE lessons, being allowed to participate in various sports outside schools like marathon running, etc applied equally to all girls and women. Yes, these rules and laws applied not just to "girly girls" and grown women who'd be coded as "feminine," but just as much to "tomboys" and the most masculine, stone butches; to all the Roman Catholic nuns I knew who were anything but "feminine" in their attire (ugly habits), their mannerisms (stern, forbidding and often cruel, rarely kind) and their hair (which was shaved); as well as to all the hundreds of millions of girls and women back then who had short hair, wore little or no makeup in everyday life, adhered to simple and no-nonsense grooming regimes, dressed practically and were in no way concerned about trying to act and look "feminine" or "girlish" the way today's genderists like this guy assume has always been customary.

Similarly, the then-legal US workplace rules that caused women to be routinely fired from employment as soon as it became evident we were pregnant did not apply only to "feminine" women - they applied to all women regardless of looks and affect based on one thing: female reproductive capacity. Just as laws and rules prohibiting abortion and birth control applied to everyone with female reproductive biology, not just to those coded as "feminine."

In much of the world today, girls and women have very little freedom to venture outside the home, and when they do go outside they have to cover their heads and often much of their bodies - or their entire bodies - too. In countries where there are laws that require hijabs, burkas, abayas, chadors and other forms of female veiling, these apply to all female people over a certain age (which depending on the jurisdiction can be six or even younger) based on sex - not on "gender" or "gender identity.

A lot of women in the world - particularly older women who've had hard, disadvantaged lives full of endless toil - have lined, cragged, rugged faces that today's young Western genderists would consider quite masculine-looking. They don't have the sexy young babe figures the genderists consider "feminine" either, often coz of age and the fact they've borne many children. In fact, coz so many of these women older have missing teeth, visible chin hairs, portly stooped bodies etc, many young genderists would find them not just "manly" looking but downright ugly. But if they live in a country where veiling is compulsory, it still applies to them. Coz sex and its consequences are inescapable. Funny dat.