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[–]MarkTwainiac 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The urge to say "I'm sorry" all the time comes from the ways females are socialized from infancy. You can get over it, though it will take vigilance and effort. But it's within your power to pull off. Give yourself time.

BTW, you didn't step on anyone's toes here. Not even close. You simply made a point that seemed vague and was unsubstantiated; as a result others didn't understand and wanted you to clarify what you meant. No big deal.

Also, even if you had stepped on someone's toes - so what! Stepping on someone's toes is not like running somebody over in car, or dropping a safe or ton of bricks on them from several stories up like happens in cartoons.

Making unclear, unsubstantiated points on the internet is not a crime. Billions of people do it every day. Be kind to yourself.