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[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You're very lucky. and I'm glad you didn't have to go through this. I'm currently 29 and I'm a gay man so there's that. A lot of my friends were actually straight & bi women as well as 2 straight male friends who all are engulfed i the Trans community politics though I just didn't know how deep until I made my post defending Maya Forstater and JK Rowling as well as saying "Men can't become women, women can't become men" (at the time prior, I was mostly closeted about my beliefs since I feared losing people but seeing the reaction towards JK Rowling and Maya, I just felt it was time to speak up at that point).

[–]our_team_is_winning 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

A lot of my friends were actually straight & bi women as well as 2 straight male friends who all are engulfed i the Trans community politics

You notice how quick straight people are to jump on the TRA train. If they have to choose between gay and trans, they choose trans. They've got it in their heads that LGBT is all one group and any gay person who says drop the T is a heretic.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yes it was quite an eye opener to see how quick straight people will hop aboard the TRA express with no deep critical thought at all. I'm not really sure how other gay men feel though. Like I would like to believe that other gay men (since I know many lesbians are able to get out of drinking that trans kool-aid) wouldn't buy into either when you really challenged them but yeah...

[–]Nosce_te_ipsum 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is rather suspicious how fast a lot of straight people were to jump on the TRA train (when you compare it to the more gradual trajectory LGB acceptance had). I think part of it is mindlessly following "woke" social media and wanting to be praised for being on the "right side of history" (as other commentators pointed out). But I suspect a lot of straight people still hold disdain (disgust?) for same sex attracted individuals, yet can't openly express it because it's no longer socially acceptable to be homophobic (at least in western countries).

That's how you get a worryingly large number of parents who would rather transition their GNC children, than accept that said children might grow up to discover they are homosexual or bisexual. For whatever reason, it appears that the more conservative someone's values are, the more they lean towards transitioning as a "cure" for homosexuality, or for fixing behaviors that don't align with specific gender roles. How these people call themselves "progressive" while telling a little boy who's playing with dolls that he might be a girl because of it, is beyond my ability to understand.