Thank you for your response in turn. Now that I understand you took a rhetorical question of OP's as an earnest one, I can see where you were coming from in your first post. In a classic example of "not reading the room," you seemed not to get - or perhaps read - all the posts that preceded yours, either.

I hope if you are interested in the experience of women affected by the current trend of so many heterosexual men claiming to be women - particularly when they are married, have already fathered children and have a new baby on the way - you will avail yourself of the links I shared at the start of this thread.

For more insight into why so many heterosexual men - including many married fathers - are claiming they are women and they

all want to look cute, have long hair, wear makeup, and sexy feminine clothing

I suggest reading such works as "The Man Who Would Be Queen" by J Michael Bailey, "Galileo's Middle Finger" by Alice Dreger, "Men Trapped in Men's Bodies: Narratives of Autogynephilic Trannssexualism" by Anne Lawrence (an MD sexologist who is also AGP trans; the book is available for free on Lawrence's website), Janice Raymond's seminal 1979 book, "The Transsexual Empire" (available for free at janiceraymond.com), the papers of Ray Blanchard (all available for free - check his Twitter), and the utterly misogynist recent work "Females" by Andrea Long Chu, a man who says that "sissy porn" made him trans.

Chu, another heterosexual man with AGP who now "identifies as" a lesbian, says he

transitioned for gossip and compliments, lipstick and mascara, for crying at the movies, for being someone’s girlfriend . . . for feeling hot, for getting hit on by butches, for that secret knowledge of which dykes to watch out for, for Daisy Dukes, bikini tops, and all the dresses, and, my god, for the breasts.

What's more, Chu says the defining essence of being female is

an open mouth, an expectant asshole, blank, blank eyes”

A view that I hope you can see is profoundly offensive and insulting to those of us who actually are female.

A review of Chu's book: https://thecritic.co.uk/issues/january-2020/sissy-porn-and-trans-dirty-laundry/