you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I am disturbed by how many stories I am hearing like this. Just a word of warning, apart from him transitioning, it sounds like he may be a porn addict as well, which is concerning. My husband is an recovering porn addict and I would have left if he hadn't got into recovery with Sex Addicts Anonymous and got clean. The lies and betrayal and the devastation of my self-esteem and sense of femininity were extremely traumatic. We still use internet monitoring software because my trust was completely broken. But I am lucky in that he has taken to 12 step recovery like a duck to water and made fundamental changes to his life, perspective and priorities. We don't have children. What if one of your children sees what he's looking at by mistake. Other people have posted links to support resources so I will just wish you luck, and again, I'm sorry you are going through this.