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[–]thrownawaycan 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

So here's a question that i always want to ask in this convo but it never seems appropriate.

Who is all the "BBC destroys white teen pussy" porn for? I've seen a lot of people saying it's for white women, and I don't know, there's so much of it professionally produced that I find it hard to believe.

I guess I struggle from it because of my perspective, as a white woman who has dealt with men of color being really creepy/fetishistic over my being white. I get that preference for white women is absolutely part of racism and related to denigration of WoC, but I guess I see race and patriarchy intersecting in a weird way when followed to my car by a dude saying really weird shit about my skin color.

[–]lefterfield 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

No porn is made for women. As a white woman who was used by a black man for my whiteness, I think patriarchy and racism is a lot more complicated than the original comment implies.

[–]thrownawaycan 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

There's also the "white women are for fucking, <women of my own race> are for loving and having families" attitude that I've run into a fair amount.

I'm not saying that white women aren't creepy and fetishistic towards men of color, they absolutely can be and are, I guess it's more the intersection between the two is more complicated than just "white women bad".

[–]Veneficca 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Like the Rotherham rapes in the UK, where predominantly Pakistani men targeted thousands of white girls for sexual abuse. Horrific scandal and everyone STILL gets uncomfortable talking about the real dynamics at play.