And so many of these "beautiful trans females" complain about how straight men use them as f.ck-toys but have no interest in them for LTRs. Sure, statistically, some of them find marital bliss, but it's harder to achieve by several orders of magnitude. You can complain about how awful cisgendered straight men are but the fact remains that the vast majority of them do not want to date or marry a transwoman, and this is where the trans fantasy meets the hard bumpy road of reality. Also, most gay men don't want to date (or even f.ck) a transwoman, so there really isn't anyone left.

As for transbians, well that's a whole other ball of narcissistic dysfunction.

As a cis-gendered gay man with a somewhat masculine bearing it has not been difficult throughout my life to find other gay men who have wanted to f.ck and/or date me, and I am now married to a man I love who loves (among other things) my masculinity. If I had been transitioned as a kid because I was GNC, it would be much more likely that I would be single and miserable.

Again, I don't care what adults decide to do (as long as what they do doesn't impact the well being of others). But children are not developmentally able to consent to life-altering hormonal treatment and surgery. This is where I draw a razor-sharp line.