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[–]Tikiri 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Is there any way you can hang out with her in person, get more of a feel for what she’s like i.r.l., especially when it comes to her political views? Face-to-face would be the best way to see what she’s like when it comes to this. Or, at the very least, could you chat extensively with her online, for the same purpose?

[–]uroborosjohnson 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Unfortunately it's a cross-country move so only virtual chats for now. I'm just so tired of pretending I agree with all the LGBT trans stuff, when I find it personally offensive as a lesbian. But I also don't like the feeling of having to defend myself constantly or being written off as a bigot.

[–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You're a lesbian living with a TRA? Be prepared to be asked the dreaded question...

[–]uroborosjohnson 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She's a straight woman so I'm hoping we can entirely avoid the topic